If the last year has felt heavy, reflective, emotional, or oddly quiet on the outside while loud on the inside, there’s a reason for that — 2025 is a 9 Year in numerology. And as we move toward 2026, a 1 Year, we’re collectively stepping out of an ending and into a beginning.
Understanding this transition can help you stop fighting the energy you’re in — and instead work with it.
What Does It Mean That 2025 Is a 9 Year?
In numerology, years move in repeating 9‑year cycles. You find the number by adding the digits of the year:
2 + 0 + 2 + 5 = 9
A 9 Year is the final chapter of the cycle. It’s the year of completion, release, closure, and integration. This isn’t a time to push harder or force what isn’t flowing. It’s a time to finish, heal, and let go.
Common Themes of a 9 Year
- Endings and transitions
- Emotional processing and reflection
- Releasing outdated identities, roles, or relationships
- Forgiveness and compassion
- Decluttering — physically, emotionally, spiritually
- A strong pull toward meaning and authenticity
In a 9 Year, things often fall away naturally. Jobs end. Relationships shift. Old dreams lose their sparkle. This isn’t failure — it’s completion.
Many people experience a sense of limbo in a 9 Year. You may know what no longer fits, but not yet see what’s next. That’s normal. The role of a 9 Year isn’t to reveal the future — it’s to clear space for it.
Why 2026 Is a 1 Year — and Why That Matters
Now let’s look ahead:
2 + 0 + 2 + 6 = 10 → 1 + 0 = 1
A 1 Year begins an entirely new 9‑year cycle. Energetically, it’s the opposite of a 9 Year.
Where 9 says release, 1 says begin. Where 9 says complete, 1 says create. Where 9 asks what’s finished?, 1 asks who are you becoming?
Themes of a 1 Year
- New beginnings and fresh starts
- Identity shifts
- Courage and self‑leadership
- Planting seeds for the future
- Taking aligned risks
- Independence and self‑trust
A 1 Year isn’t about instant results — it’s about initiation. The choices you make in 2026 tend to shape the entire cycle ahead.
Why the Transition Matters So Much
The bridge between a 9 Year and a 1 Year is one of the most important energetic transitions we experience.
If you carry unfinished business, unresolved grief, or expired identities out of a 9 Year and into a 1 Year, those themes often replay — just louder.
But when you consciously close the chapter in a 9 Year, you enter the 1 Year lighter, clearer, and more confident.
Think of it this way:
- A 9 Year clears the soil
- A 1 Year plants the seeds
What you don’t release in 9 determines what struggles to grow in 1.
Best Practices for Transitioning from a 9 Year to a 1 Year
1. Finish What You Can
This is the year to complete projects, conversations, healing processes, and obligations that have been lingering.
Ask yourself:
- What have I been avoiding finishing?
- What deserves closure before I move forward?
Completion creates momentum.
2. Grieve Honestly (and Gently)
A 9 Year often involves mourning — even if nothing "bad" happened. You may be grieving:
- Old versions of yourself
- Timelines that didn’t unfold
- Relationships that changed
- Dreams that evolved
Let the grief move through you so it doesn’t follow you.
3. Release Identities That No Longer Fit
Who you were at the start of this cycle may not be who you are now.
Journal prompts to explore:
- Who am I no longer trying to be?
- What labels feel heavy or outdated?
- Where am I shrinking to stay familiar?
You don’t need to know who you’re becoming yet — just who you’re done being.
4. Declutter on All Levels
Physical decluttering is powerful in a 9 Year, but emotional and energetic decluttering matters just as much.
Clear:
- Your home
- Your calendar
- Your commitments
- Your digital space
- Your emotional labor
Space is an invitation.
5. Create a Conscious Closure Ritual
Mark the ending intentionally. This can be simple or ceremonial:
- Write a letter to the last 9 years and burn or release it
- Perform a cord‑cutting or energy clearing ritual
- Take a solo walk and reflect on what you’re leaving behind
- Close the year with gratitude for what shaped you
Ritual tells your nervous system it’s safe to move on.
Preparing for the Energy of a 1 Year
As 2026 approaches, shift your focus from what’s ending to what wants to begin — without forcing clarity.
Instead of big rigid goals, ask:
- What feels exciting again?
- Where do I feel curious instead of obligated?
- What version of me wants more space?
A 1 Year rewards aligned action, not pressure.
Final Thoughts: Trust the Timing
If 2025 has felt uncomfortable, uncertain, or emotionally intense, it doesn’t mean you’re behind. It means you’re right on time.
Endings are not failures. They are evidence of growth.
As you move from the completion energy of a 9 Year into the initiation energy of a 1 Year, remember:
✨ You are not starting from scratch ✨ You are starting from wisdom ✨ You are carrying only what truly belongs
And that makes all the difference.
If you’d like support navigating this transition — through reflection, ritual, or aligned intention‑setting — this is exactly the kind of energetic threshold that powerful transformation is born from.
Have you ever fallen in love with something so much that you thought, “This is it! This is my thing!”? You pour your time, your heart, and your money into it. You set goals, make plans, dream big — because it feels so good to do what you love. And then… one day, something shifts.
You notice a new spark — a fresh idea, a new interest, a curiosity that pulls at your soul. Suddenly, the thing you once loved feels a little heavier. You still appreciate it, but it’s not lighting you up in the same way. And that’s when the internal conflict begins.
So many people get stuck in this exact space. They feel torn between what was and what could be. They stay stuck because:
- They’ve become financially dependent on the old thing.
- They’ve built an identity around that thing.
- They’re worried about disappointing others who depend on them for that thing.
Sound familiar?
Here’s the truth: growth often requires pivots. You’re not flaky, confused, or uncommitted — you’re evolving. And evolution means transformation.
Let’s rewrite those fear-based thoughts and walk through how to pivot with grace and confidence.
1. “I’m financially dependent on this thing.”
Reframe: “I used to be financially dependent on something else before this, and I made it work then — I can make it work again.”
You don’t have to drop everything overnight. Think of this as a bridge season rather than a full stop.
Try this:
Try this:
- Keep your current work as your stability anchor while dedicating small blocks of time each week to your new passion.
- Use the income from your current thing to fund your transition — courses, supplies, or savings for when you’re ready to shift fully.
- Be patient. Pivots often happen one aligned action at a time, not in one dramatic leap.
2. “But this is who I am. This is my identity.”
Reframe: “I also had an identity when I was two years old. I’ve been growing and changing ever since.”
You are not your job title. You are not your business. You are not your Instagram bio. You are you — a constantly evolving, curious, creative being.
Try this:
Try this:
- Redefine your identity around your core values instead of your roles.
For example: “I am someone who inspires others through creativity and authenticity,” rather than, “I am a coach/painter/yoga teacher.” - Update your self-concept. Ask: “Who am I becoming?” and start showing up as that person now.
- Remind yourself that change doesn’t erase your past; it expands your story.
3. “People might get mad or disappointed if I change.”
Reframe: “My happiness is my responsibility; their happiness is theirs. I can support them through the transition, but I don’t owe them my stuckness.”
Yes, some people might resist your change — especially if they’ve benefited from your current path. But real connections and clients will celebrate your growth.
Try this:
Try this:
- Communicate with honesty and compassion. “I’ve loved doing this, but I’m feeling called in a new direction. I want to make sure you’re supported as I shift.”
- Offer a transition plan — referrals, resources, or a phased handoff.
- Remember: people are resilient. They’ll adapt, just like you.
4. Bonus: Practice the Art of the Gentle Pivot
Transition doesn’t have to mean chaos. Try these pivot tricks to make it smooth and empowering:
- Journal the journey: Write out what you’re leaving behind, what you’re taking with you, and what you’re stepping into.
- Create overlap: Let the old and new coexist for a while. You’ll naturally feel when it’s time to let the old fade out.
- Trust your timing: Not every pivot is instant. Sometimes it’s slow, steady realignment — and that’s perfect.
- Celebrate each shift: Every step toward alignment is a win, even if it feels uncomfortable.
Final Thoughts
Learning to pivot isn’t about quitting — it’s about honoring your evolution. The version of you who started that first thing did exactly what they were meant to do. They got you here. Now it’s time to listen to the whisper of what’s next.
Your path doesn’t have to be linear. It just has to be yours.
Honoring the Divine Feminine: Shifting the Mindset Around the Monthly Cycle and Taming the Pain-Body
This morning, a young woman I work with walked into the office and casually said she had “received the woman’s curse.”
It was meant as a lighthearted comment, but it struck me how easily we’ve inherited that language — that being a woman, and experiencing our natural cycle, could be seen as a curse.
It was meant as a lighthearted comment, but it struck me how easily we’ve inherited that language — that being a woman, and experiencing our natural cycle, could be seen as a curse.
I smiled and gently offered a new perspective:
“What if, instead of feeling cursed, you celebrated this as a sacred time — a reminder of your connection to the Divine Feminine?”
“What if, instead of feeling cursed, you celebrated this as a sacred time — a reminder of your connection to the Divine Feminine?”
Her face softened.
And it reminded me of something Eckhart Tolle once said in The Power of Now:
And it reminded me of something Eckhart Tolle once said in The Power of Now:
“The pain-body in women tends to become activated particularly just prior to and during the menstrual flow… If you are able to stay present and alert at that time, every old emotion that arises in you will be transmuted into consciousness.”
That passage has always stayed with me — because it reframes the menstrual cycle not as something to dread, but as an opportunity for presence, purification, and power.
The Pain-Body and the Power of Presence
According to Tolle, the “pain-body” is the emotional residue of past pain that lives within us — a collection of old wounds, trauma, and suppressed emotions. For many women, this energy awakens cyclically, often around menstruation.
When we resist it — by labeling it as “bad,” “unfair,” or “a curse” — the pain-body grows stronger. But when we meet it with awareness and compassion, it begins to dissolve.
That’s where presence becomes medicine.
Instead of reacting, we breathe.
Instead of resenting, we listen.
Instead of numbing, we feel.
Instead of resenting, we listen.
Instead of numbing, we feel.
This is how we transmute pain into power. Each month offers an invitation to deepen our connection with our body, our emotions, and our inner wisdom.
Reclaiming the Sacred Feminine
Our cycles mirror the rhythm of nature itself — creation, release, renewal. The moon waxes and wanes; the tides rise and fall; the seasons bloom and rest. We, too, are cyclical beings.
The Divine Feminine invites us to honor that rhythm rather than resist it.
Menstruation isn’t a punishment — it’s a cleansing. A physical and energetic release of what’s no longer needed. A reminder that we are powerful creators capable of bringing life — not just biologically, but energetically and spiritually.
When we begin to see our cycles as sacred, our relationship with ourselves begins to heal.
From Curse to Ceremony
Imagine if every time your cycle began, you saw it as a time to slow down, journal, nurture your body, and reconnect with your intuition.
What if instead of saying, “I got my period,” you said,
“I’m entering my renewal phase,” or
“My body is asking for stillness,” or
“I’m shedding to make room for what’s next.”
“I’m entering my renewal phase,” or
“My body is asking for stillness,” or
“I’m shedding to make room for what’s next.”
This mindset shift transforms the experience from something we endure into something we honor.
Even a small act — like lighting a candle, wearing comfortable clothes, or placing a hand on your womb and saying “thank you” — can shift the energy from resistance to reverence.
Taming the Pain-Body Through Love and Awareness
Here’s how to begin working with your cycle as a spiritual practice:
- Be Present with Your Body.
Notice sensations without labeling them. Pain, fatigue, emotion — they are messengers, not enemies. - Release Judgment.
Stop calling it a curse. Stop apologizing for it. Instead, speak words of gratitude for your body’s intelligence. - Create Space.
Use this time to rest, reflect, and listen. The insights that come when we slow down are often the whispers of the soul. - Transmute Emotion into Consciousness.
When irritability or sadness arises, breathe deeply and remind yourself: This is energy moving through me. I am safe to feel. - Celebrate Your Divinity.
Whether through ritual, journaling, or self-care, use this phase as a reminder of your cyclical nature — and your power to renew.
The next time someone refers to their cycle as “the woman’s curse,” maybe you’ll smile and say —
“It’s not a curse. It’s a ceremony.”
“It’s not a curse. It’s a ceremony.”
A monthly return to your divine feminine essence.
A chance to tame the pain-body through love, awareness, and presence.
A sacred reminder that being a woman is — and always has been — a gift.
A chance to tame the pain-body through love, awareness, and presence.
A sacred reminder that being a woman is — and always has been — a gift.
I have been thinking a lot about financial goals lately. Mostly, because I realized that i have a lot of work to do in that area.
Back in early 2020, when I decided to leave my husband, I was not in the best financial shape. Then I acquired a lot of debt with the divorce that followed. Followed quickly by a sizeable pay cut when I decided to quit my job, pack up everything and move to Florida.
I have been in Florida now for two years, and while my finances have improved, it has been a very slow process (damn finance charges!!). Now that I feel as though I am coming out of survival mode and breaking into thriving mode, I think it is time to set some financial goals that are both safe and challenging.
Safe because I am 48 and don’t want to gamble too much with my retirement. Challenging because I want to figure out how to get the biggest bang for my buck (literally).
When thinking about financial goals that you could set for yourself, consider these five examples:
Save for an emergency fund: Start by saving a safety net of $1,000 so you are able to stop using credit cards for emergencies. Aim to save three to six months' worth of living expenses in a separate, easily accessible account. This fund can provide a safety net in case of unexpected events like job loss or medical emergencies.
Pay off debt: Focus on eliminating high-interest debt first, such as credit card balances. Set a timeline and specific amount to pay off each month to gradually reduce your debt burden. Use the snowball method to help pay off debt faster.
Invest for retirement: Contribute regularly to a retirement account, such as a 401(k) or IRA. Take advantage of employer matching contributions if available and consider consulting a financial advisor to determine the best investment strategy for your goals.
Save for a major purchase: Whether it's a down payment on a house, a new car, or a dream vacation, setting aside a specific amount each month can help you reach your goal without resorting to credit.
Build a diversified investment portfolio: Research different types of investments, such as stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and real estate. Diversifying your investments can help spread risk and increase the potential for returns over time.
Setting clear, achievable financial goals can pave the way to a secure and prosperous future. Remember to review and adjust your goals regularly to reflect changes in your life circumstances and financial situation.
Do you have any financial goals that you want to share?
